You’ve done the therapy. You’ve left the relationship – even moved to a new home where you live by yourself now. You’ve quit the job that was killing you. You’ve changed the belief system that kept you small.
So why does your house still feel like it belongs to someone else?
This is the question I’m hearing everywhere as we shift into new energetic territory. Women who’ve done the internal work – who KNOW they’ve changed – but walk into their own homes and feel… wrong. Like they’re visiting a museum of who they used to be (this would be a subconscious feeling).
Or worse – living in someone else’s museum entirely.
What’s actually happening, is your space is still holding previous energetic imprints that aren’t yours.
Maybe it’s the actual furniture, or the furniture arranged to accommodate needs you no longer have. The locked room you’re “not allowed” to touch. The belongings of people who don’t even live there anymore (I call this OPS – other people’s stuff). The broken systems (no hot water, leaking roof) you’ve learned to work around because fixing them feels like “asking too much.”
THIS NEW PERIOD 9 FIRE ASKS… DOES THIS SPACE REFLECT WHO YOU’RE BECOMING, OR WHO YOU WERE REQUIRED TO BE?
What I keep noticing is women being incredibly kind to everyone else – maintaining gardens, paying bills, not touching “his” locked office, not “bothering” anyone about the broken geyser, pleasing others – WHILE TREATING THEMSELVES LIKE THEY DON’T MATTER.
You’re still performing accommodation. Still making yourself small in spaces that should be YOURS. Still working around dysfunction instead of demanding it gets fixed, changed or replaced. Making excuses why you’re not taking charge of your space.
The new incoming energy (we’ve been feeling it out these last 2 years,) is asking women to claim their right to live an elevated life – abundance, wealth, vitality. Not just surviving. Not just “making do.” Not just being grateful for a roof over your head while the geyser doesn’t work and his locked office takes up space.
CLAIMING MEANS
• Taking up space
• Doing what you want
• Stating your preferences – the colours you actually like, the furniture arrangement that serves YOUR life, the way YOU want to live
Not “I should be grateful for what I have.” Not “At least I have somewhere to live.” Not “I don’t want to be demanding.”
YOUR RIGHT TO ABUNDANCE DOESN’T REQUIRE PERMISSION. YOUR RIGHT TO TAKE UP SPACE DOESN’T NEED JUSTIFICATION.
(You can see I feel quite strongly about this 😊)
Reclaiming isn’t redecorating…
It’s releasing the energetic claims others still have on your space.
It’s clearing the clutter – physical, mental, relational – that keeps you performing a version of yourself that no longer exists.
It’s saying, “This broken thing? I’m fixing it. This locked room? Either it serves me or it goes. This furniture arrangement? It serves MY life now.”
Your home should feel like HOME, not a house where you’re still a guest performing gratitude.
If you’re feeling homeless in your own space, your environment is holding old patterns while you’re trying to live a new life. The lag between who you’ve become and where you’re living creates that limbo feeling.
The rupture already happened. You’ve already left. You’ve already changed.
YOUR SPACE IS STILL WAITING FOR YOU TO CLAIM IT!
